Adult Friend Finder

casual friend finder is the biggest and longest running casual website online so it’s no surprise that they have some amazing features based inside a very stable site.

It’s also no surprise that they have millions of registered members -not all of which are now active but you can be sure their will be plenty of women in your area if you live in a big city.

Adult friend finder is based on a monthly membership service!

You can sign up 100% and set up your profile but you are unable to view other members profiles without being a silver member yourself.

What you can do is obtain your free membership and then create a great profile that attracts attention – this allows other members to email you – You are allowed to reply to any email that is sent to you but you can actively email anyone without a membership.

So it’s obviously possible to get the contacts of sex personals at no cost.

casual friend finder not only allows you to chat with sexy singles all over the world but it also lets’ you VIDEO chat with them like skype.

The community alone is worth signing up for – it contains a bunch of user submitted photos and videos plus a ton of blogs that document the crazy erotic lives of casualfriendfinder members all over the world.

You can become a part of this erotic casual dating word simply by grabbing a free membership.

The casual friend finder site is brought to you by the friend finder network of sites — they also own many others like alt.com and bdsm.com for the more freaky.

The reality of casual friend finder is that there are plenty of guys on the site when you compare the numbers to women. But this just reflects the normal sexual bar scene.

You get the more slutty girls hanging around as the tasteful girls have already got a guy and are safe at home. Meanwhile more guys keep showing up throwing out the ratio.

As a guy you will always have to compete against other guys for female attention unless you know some of the secrets of seduction and female psychology. Unless you find women chasing you it’s going to be that same male:female ratio.

So the trick is how you stand out from the crowd within a site that is crowded?

Using certain profile pictures that work (change them up) you will get a higher response .

Make sure that you are actively emailing women otherwise it’s unlikely you will get any attention.

Some guys have mentioned that if you are going to use casual friend finder you have to go in with a relaxed attitude about it. The women are a little CRAZY… You are not going to be chatting with sane women that you will be able to take home to your parents! This is important to know.

That doesn’t mean that you will be unable to set up one night stands – this is very likely going to happen. But if you are inexperienced it’s not going to be the best site for you to use.

One of the better moves if you are looking for casual sex is to get really great at seduction and go where the ratio is in your favour. These are not usually casual dating sites! They are going to be site like eharmony as this site is very serious about marriage and long term relationships. You shouldn’t lie about your casual dating intent.

All I am saying is that casual friend finder wont be teeming with tons of innocent women like you would like to think.

So know that I have prefaced the reality of casual friend finder how can you make it work and is it really for you.

It’s for you if your happy to be in a casual sexual relationship with a women that could be a little erratic and emotional. (PS you could get lucky and bag a real cute normal girl)

You can make it work by being open honest and a little pushy – meaning that you will have to be fairly blunt and you will have to email a bunch of women continuously before you get through.

It should be obvious to you that casual friend finder is NOT you normal dating site… it’s not close. But it does provide a great service if you know how to work it and you know what your getting yourself into.

UPDATE:

Reader email – said he met up with a 38 year old divorcee the other week after a couple of months of no luck email conversations. The email suggested that he had a great time and it was a relatively normal date that ended in what I presume to be casual sex.

Another guy said he was simply enjoying the free account and the user webcam footage at http://casualfriendfinder.com/p/video/main.cgi?

With the free account it says that you are able to “watch explicit member videos” without paying anything I think he means the Live Member Broadcast area.

Someone else was talking about the effectiveness of lack thereof using casualfriendfinder instant messenger and the fact that you can message people with a free account. Not sure how useful this would be but you can check it out at http://casualfriendfinder.com/p/chat/makerooms.cgi?

Does casual Friend Finder Work?

I think the question here is NOT in the site features tools uptime speed or even quality of users! We are not asking – is it easy to contact women within casual friend finder and do they want to meet up offline… Clearly the framework is the best in the business and the site navigation and emailing system does the job it’s supposed to do.

The question is in the mindframe/mindset and volume of the female users on the site. Is the ratio 20:1 in favor of too many dicks? Are the majority of successful hookups bi women looking for other women or men looking for other men? Is the casual online dating scene best geared toward this sort of almost underground alternative scene? (alt.com)

Do gay and lesbian’s still find it hard to meet other casual partners despite the seemingly open stance of society toward it and therefore use online dating as a great tool for meeting “likeminded” singles…

Resources:

These resources suggest that casual friend finder has been amongst some nasty allegations. A guy on the attraction forums has tried out casual friend finder. He has not talked about how he went.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/casual_FriendFinder

http://www.theattractionforums.com/online-game-ims/23739-you-expert-casualfriendfinder.html

Check out bonny albo’s review (4.5/5) of casual friend finder at

dating.about.com/od/casualdatingsites/fr/casualFriend.htm

This is obviously when compared to other dating sites of it’s kind. The effectiveness of casual friend finder is still questionable.